I Love You
<img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925100028912.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>”I love you” does not always have the same meaning, and this, too, should tell us something about the elusive nature of love. <br><br>“我爱你”，这三个字并非总是同一个涵义。这就告诉我们，爱情的天性里，总是有那么多难以捉摸的东西。<br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131372.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>The first time it is always a surprise,an invasion,an aggressive act, but once said, “I love you” can only be repeated. It is unthinkable that it should not be said again, and again, and again. <br><br>第一次，永远是一个惊喜，一次入侵，一场攻城掠寨的壮举。然而一旦被说出了口， “我爱你”这三个字就只能一再地被重复。一遍又一遍，重复，成了不能不履行的义务。<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131378.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>When one has not said it for a while, this may itself precipitate a crisis. (“Now why haven’t you said that in all of these months!”) <br><br>如果一段时间不说，这本身就种下了危机。----“为什么，好几个月里你一直没有说过！”<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131373.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>on the other hand, “I love you” can also serve as a threat (“Don’t push me on this, you might lose me”) <br><br>另一方面，“我爱你”也可以用作一种威胁----“不要逼我，否则你会失去我”…<br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131379.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>emotional blackmail (“I’ve said it, now you have to respond in kind”) <br><br>可以作为感情的勒索----“既然我已经对你说了，你也应该回报给我”…<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131375.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>a warning (“It’s only because I love you that I’m willing to put up with this”) <br><br>或是一个警告----“都是因为爱你，我才甘愿忍受了这么多”…<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131380.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>an apology (“I could not possibly have meant what I have said to you, to you of all people”). <br><br>一个道歉----“我不是有意要那样说你，在那么多人的面前”。<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131374.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>It can be an instrument – more effective than the loudest noise – to interrupt a dull or painful conversation. It can be a cry, a plea, a verbal flag (“Pay attention to me!”) <br><br>它是一种武器----威力超过高声地吵闹----它可以打破沉闷的对话，终止伤人的争论。它可以代替哭泣、代替恳求，它是用语言摇动着的一面旗----“请你听我说！”<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131383.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>有时，它是一个借口----“就是因为我爱你，所以……”<br><br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131382.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>it can be a disguise (“I love you,” he whispered, looking awkwardly askance at the open door). <br><br>有时，它是一个伪装----“我爱你，”他喃喃地说着，眼睛局促不安地，瞟向敞开的门。<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131377.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>It can be an attack (“How can you do this to me?”) <br><br>它可以是一次攻击----“你怎么能够这样对待我？”<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131386.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>or even an end (“So that’s that. With regrets, good-bye”). <br><br>也可以是一个结束----“就是这样吧。抱歉，再见。”<br><br><br><br><img src="http://www.ycxgx.com/bbs/upload/2003-39/20030925000131384.jpg" border="0" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="" style="CURSOR: pointer" onload="javascript:if(this.width>screen.width-500)this.style.width=screen.width-500;" /> <br><br>If this single phrase has so many meanings, how varied and variable must be the emotion. <br><br>如果这简单的三个字，竟能拥有这么多的含义，那它所代表的那种叫作“爱”的感情，又该是怎样地纷乱复杂、变幻无常…… <br><br><br><br>[wmv]http://mp3.baidu.com/u?u=http://green1027.hihome.com/music2/Daydream/Dreaming/YWUz.asf[/wmv]
